Weddings Officiated by Rev. Julia Gay

Looking to get married? Dreaming of a wedding in the enchanting state of New Mexico? I’m the officiant you’re looking for!

My belief is that marriage is a union between people who are able to knowingly consent to the emotional, psychological, financial, and spiritual responsibilities associated with said union.

To put it another way: I will perform same sex marriages, opposite sex marriages, polyamorous commitment ceremonies, and commitment to self ceremonies. All I require is that all parties are willing and legally, psychologically, and emotionally able to consent. I’ll be there with bells on. Or not. Bells not required.

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If you are looking to get married and would like me to officiate, I am happy help. My fee is on a sliding scale, with a top rate of $200 per event. If you have any questions, please email me at